I've been reading a lot of articles/blogs talking about how
difficult a woman could be in a relationship. And it’s certainly unfair. Don't
you men realize why? Well, I have listed them down for you. And yes, you are
very much welcome.
Ladies, lets accept the fact that the first thing that a man
would be attracted to is on our physical appearance unless you know each other
for a long time. At the beginning, all he knows is you're beautiful and he
wants you. And when he got you and you guys start dating that's the time he'll
fall in or maybe fall out with your attitude.
Men, you should know the fact that how you treat your
partner affects their attitude and behaviour towards you and towards the whole
relationship thing that you are both into.
Let me tell you why most women are difficult and hard to
please and you maybe consider to blame yourself.
1. Spoiling her
Being a supportive loving partner is different from
complying unrestrainedly with her desires. She'll get use to have what she
wants without any trouble and brace yourself for a war when she doesn't.
Trust me, she'll love you more when you say NO to whatever
unnecessary things she'll like to be having or doing. A woman likes a man that
can shut her. Be an alpha male.
2. Taking the blame
I don't understand why most men feel that taking the blame
of whatever causes the arguments is the right thing to do. You think it’s sweet?
It’s actually more of you being a moron.
Please, when it's her fault do not apologize first. Let her
feel sorry. Let her feel your worth. Make her realize her mistakes. If you don't
want to look bad, say sorry after she does for not understanding her at first
and thank her for accepting her fault. A woman likes a man who has a pride.
Don't lose it.
3. Giving her access to your privacy.
Here's with the trust issues.
Men, you don't have to give her all your passwords to access
your social sites or even your phone just to let her know that you are a very
loyal partner. Giving her all the access is like giving her all the reasons for
you to fight. Because you won't escape the truth that most women are very
sensitive or worse insecure that a simple "Hi" or "Hello"
from a girlfriend who most of the time would just sell something to you could
cause a world war MXXIII. Just be honest. Your partner also needs privacy. Be a
man with integrity.
4. Men being stoic.
Not all women claimed to be a clairvoyant. It's always best
to let your partner know what you feel. Speak up. Let her know what you have in
mind.
Don't spoil her by saying yes to whatever she says especially
when you know she’s not right. Don't take the blame to shut her. Explain what's
wrong and why she's wrong. Make her understand that your relationship is not just
about her. It’s about both of you. It’s about give and take. It’s about how you
compromise with things to avoid misunderstandings. It’s about honesty and trust.
Men, don’t be afraid to talk, don’t be afraid to hurt her by
your words, don’t be afraid to complain and don't be afraid to show your feelings
because if you don’t, you are giving her all the reasons to be more difficult. Be
brave.
5. Men being stupid.
Well it is given that you are truly, madly, deeply in love. But don’t be stupid. Giving her everything just to make her feel love and happy won’t bring you any good. She might even take you for granted for doing so.
Sweet simple things would be appreciated by woman. A freshly picked flower from
somewhere will surely make her day. It’s just like you saying that you are
thinking of her every time. Be spontaneous.
Know if she’ll agree to this post because if not she’s not
mature enough to understand what is the real meaning of being committed and the
difference of love from infatuation.
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